Community

Being a part of the Campus Activities Board (CAB) has been the most influential part of my college experience. Hands down. From the first New Student Welcome Day that I attended, I was greeted by a familiar face that beckoned me over to the CAB table. I figured it was just something to do on campus between classes. I had no idea how influential that decision would be by the time I was a graduating senior.

CAB quickly became my second home. I started spending more time in the office and with my fellow CAB members (or CABbies as we like to call ourselves). I started forming friendships that were stronger than any I had formed my previous year of college. And with any endeavor like joining a club or organization, you get as much as you put into it. So soon, after hard work and dedication, I was selected to be an event coordinator during my junior year. I was excited and looking forward to creating the kind of campus environment that I felt was needed.

Since then I’ve grown a lot. I’ve come to love our members and come to think of them as my family away from home. My role in the organization became more than just having something to do between classes. It was about finding a community. It was about contributing to something bigger than myself. It was about belonging. It has helped keep me afloat during times of crisis. When school and work seemed like too much, I knew I had friends in CAB who, at the very least, could offer me support, understanding and validation.

I also knew I had people depending on me and I depended on them. They’ve kept me motivated and focused. My goals moved from attending classes to get a degree to attending classes to make sure I stayed around to fellowship with my favorite people. My involvement became a driving factor in why I worked so hard to stay at the university.

With that said, I encourage you to find your niche on campus. Get involved and find a group that makes you feel welcome. Do your best to foster those relationships. It will be worthwhile and make your time here all the more meaningful.